我曾听到过一位母亲教育孩子：“自己孩子自己管，管好了自己孩子，自己孩子就不会有别人来管。”这话放在成年人身上也是合适的。最大的自由是自律，自律住了，可以得大自在；不能自律，必有他律，让他人来管，让组织来管，让法律来管，那时节悔之晚矣——他人来管，可能让人皮肉精神两伤；法律来管，可能让人余生世界只有几平方米。
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And finally, Gecqua, the water-type lizard with eyes nearly the size of its head and lashes that deserve their own beauty sponsorship. Gecqua doesn't blink; it poses. It's wide-eyed but fierce, adorable but dramatic. If confidence were a starter stat, Gecqua would be maxed out.
It surveyed around 5,000 people and then followed 50 couples in forensic, sometimes intrusive detail, combining statistics with diaries, interviews and "emotion maps" of what happened in the home.